As Machiko and I cut the sorghum crop, humming arias from the Marriage of Figaro, a helicopter whirred overhead, signalling the ongoing body-recovery operation from Mt Ontake. Despite its proximity, and the fact that Masan and Rie have a friend working in one of the refuges affected, the event seems not to be discussed. This could, of course, be my linguistic isolation. So I checked out my perception, asking Masan whether it's a live topic. The answer was that yes, but in a very Japanese way: not spoken about much, but felt deeply inside. There's also a total absence of the knee-jerk finger pointing that characterises Western reporting; a blend of philosophical acceptance and respect for authority? Masan acknowledges this is the Japanese way.
For Masan and Rie day-to-day life carries on. And that attitude - focusing on the immediate, and what's close to home - perhaps explains the absence of Tokyo from the photos of the climate-change demonstrations a couple of weeks ago. It's taken to quite an extreme chez the Morimotos. One friend asked me, "If everything requires such precision and mindfulness, how do they get stuff done?" To which I replied that most of their life centres on the basics of growing, cooking, cleaning, washing, heating, maintaining. And these tasks aren't chores to be completed as fast as possible; they are the stuff of life, i.e. the end as much as the means. So, as already described, doing jobs as quickly as possible isn't the point. And, hard for me, it's also not about completing a job, it's also about resting. And, perhaps in order to give us all variety of work, numerous times I've been denied the satisfaction of "job done" that, I realise, is important to me. On the subject of Japanese mores, Masan has just served me a cup of top quality Earl Grey tea, joking about how it is the Japanese way to say it is of very poor quality; and adding that, when introducing his beloved wife, he would present her in the same way, as an item of low value. This I could not take: you, Masan, free-thinking citizen of the world, how could you?! He just laughs. This diminishing of self, combined with flattery of the other person, accentuates the social differential. "But I'm staff!", I protested. Yes, but an equal, he said. It's all upside down, I understand nothing. One thing that's been bugging me: how eight of us can generate up to 100 or more items of laundry a day. I've FB'd a couple of images of part of today's load. It's insane! But, having interrogated everyone, I think it's because (1) everyone changes their entire set of clothes every day, including a full wash of dirty outdoor clothes that will get re-trashed each and every day, (2) some, like Dai chan, may change their outdoors clothes twice if they get very hot working outside, (3) up to 15 towels per day are used in the kitchen, (4) traditional Japanese underwear is large (cloth measuring 20cm x 50cm plus ties), (5) the children put their pyjamas in the wash every morning in preference to following their mother's instruction to fold them up and put them away! But it still barely stacks up. And I'm told this is nothing compared to summer, when there are 5 woofers all fuelling the machine. In this lowest of carbon footprint households it seems curiously profligate. |
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