Despite drear weather, and the "crowding" effect of an additional person and her paraphernalia in Juan's 40 sq m, we had a good weekend. I had thought I was saving Juan time and energy, myself driving. But I now understand his weekly trips to France are a choice: clear blue water between work and play. Everywhere we went was new for both of us. But whereas I was in tourist mode, for him it just felt a bit weird - why was he there at the weekend...
On Friday Juan finished early and we took advantage of the best weather of the weekend to go cross-country skiing in the Jura, near Ste Croix, 20 minutes west of Yverdon.
Rebecca: But if you like walking, and enjoy the fun of traversing a winter landscape on skis, and know that you need some exercise, and the place is empty, and it doesn't cost anything... why don't you like cross-country skiing?
Juan: I do. I did it.
Rebecca: Yeah, but you'd had enough after 30 minutes...
On Saturday we joined John, Matilda and Sophia at Les Mosses - a family ski resort an hour NE of Lac Leman. Our ski gloves hadn't made it (my imperfect packing). So, whilst John and the girls downhilled on empty, mushy, late-season pistes, Juan and I snow-shoed up to the café at the top of the resort.
... crossing paths with family Pannell on the way down:
... that was more varied than might have been expected from the theme: from 17th century Dutch still lives, with tiny windows reflected in wine glasses, to a 21st century photo project of people staring anonymously from their New York flats.
electricity installation by gallery car park |
Back at the flat Juan allowed himself to be bullied into a yoga session, using one of the stack of DVDs Kelli has lent me, opting in and out as he felt so inclined.
Juan: I can do this bit.
Rebecca: But the point is to hang on in there and explore the bits you can't do, not cop out.
Juan: That's enough. I did half of it.
By the end of the weekend I think Juan was beginning to get used to having me around. But he'll be happy to reclaim his bed tonight (gentlemanly, as ever, he took the cheap IKEA sofa-bed option for my 4 nights).
outstanding! looks like it was very worth the loud drive :)
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